• 2008/07/03

    Language embarrass

    Sometimes, language embarrass can be a good excuse to leave out something which piss you off. When we are stuck with a guy who we don't like to talk with, we just pretend a confused face and said 'sorry, I'm not such good at your language'. When we have to face a sensitive question which we don't really want to answer, we could say maybe it's the language or cultural embarrass. What you need to do is just shrug and smile. What a easy and tricky way but useful.

    However, does it make sense if there is a language or culture embarrass in a relationship? How a relationship would be even two people can't understand each other's means?

    Except the real love, just for making love or one thing we called fall in loev at first sight, I couldn't think out other reasons to explain it.

    Abso-fucking-lutely no way in a relationship with language embarrass - many people said that. Is it true? Any further reasons can be explained it? People just waiting.

  • Someone asked: How New York city looks like?

    Someone answered: a new rich!

    Someone asked: What representative items can be thought to stand for New York?

    Someone answered: Time square, Wall street, big apple, yellow cab, DKNY, white T-shirt with I ♥ NY, Sex and the city, judgemental New Yorkers etc.

    Plenty of casual chance let me focus on NYC inevitably, somehow, many of them from feminine sights. I couldn't help wonder,  what this city exactly looks like when without screaming sweaty men in the stock market at Wall Street, or those always angry guys show their middle fingers?

    Candace Bushnell, Melissa Plaut, Donna Karan, they are New Yorkers, they are female, they represent NYC just as their feminine views.

    Shall we say, this is the city cannot without sex and passion? Only The New Yorker knows the city.

  • Stu asked me if I got any plan on my birthday. Actually, despite an interview and watching Wimbledon at the pub, I really don’t want to do any particular thing on my day. The birthday song, gifts, greetings make me nervous and shy because I’m not a birthday person who wants to be the focus around your friends. I told Stu as the same thing, but still invited him to come with us, for the tennis. Maybe I’m still a normal person, or maybe I’m not a teenager with hearty hormone, wanna showing off by this case any more. What I need to is just stay with my close friends and chatting. That’s why we call that’s my 24th. Sometimes, the emotional changing is just slightly but inevitably.  

    I was thinking to make some changes for my coming 24th, but nothing special except here, the blog. For some reasons, it is just too complex to move, or even to change a little. It’s not about the issue self but my personality. Yes, we always can find even teeny tiny excuses to persuade ourselves. The result, good or bad? Who knows.

    Happy Birthday to Yang, even though I don't like to celebrate for myself. All the best love.